Now that I'm working again, I'm trying to re-adjust my schedule and find a new one that will work and let me keep up with housework.
Still haven't found it!
Also back to doing the academic advising at the school - which means that my M/W/F are full days. But yay for getting a bit more caught up financially!
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Shaun the Sheep
Calla has discovered Shaun the Sheep.
Massive giggling, and muuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuch less annoying for me to listen to than Diego.
Yay!
Massive giggling, and muuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuch less annoying for me to listen to than Diego.
Yay!
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Back to school!
After two years at home with the kiddos, I'll be teaching again this school year. Just one class, but that'll be a good way to ease back into things.
A class of two, LOL. It'll be fun. :)
A class of two, LOL. It'll be fun. :)
Saturday, July 31, 2010
Procrastinator's 7 Quick Takes Fri -- err, Saturday
1. Garage sale score this morning - a 4 x 7 (picture size) digital frame. $15.
2. Supposed to be getting a call from the private school administrator this afternoon sometime about what the schedule might look like for this year (I'm returning to teach a couple of classes). See here to find out more about the type of school it is - a mix between private school and home school. Worked there for seven years previously, and I feel pretty good about going back in.
3. Also doing a class at a co-op. Registration is Thursday. We'll see how many I get to sign up.
4. Patrick is excited about the beginning of August, b/c he knows that means school starts back up. He's looking forward to it!
5. Kiddos spent much of Thursday evening and Friday morning swimming at the in-laws' house. I need to buy more sunblock for them - we're about out of what I bought at the beginning of the summer. They've been over there swimming a lot. In previous years, we always had some left over, but this year? Already out.
6. The kiddos give me a great excuse to enjoy winter-y and Christmas-y shows in the summer. Hey, if they ask to watch "Thomas Christmas" (the Christmas themed DVD that we have of Thomas the Tank Engine episodes), well, I'm not going to tell them they have to wait until at least November to watch it. I'll gleefully turn it on (and listen in myself). ;)
7. We spent a few days without the internet this week - came back from a weekend trip (Fri. and Sat., actually) Saturday night to find our phone and internet out. Turned out to be a blown fuse type of thinger in the outside box. We thought our modem was dead too, but on a whim, the hubby tried a spare power cord that we happened to have, and presto - it worked. So, with all of that done, we were back up and running Wednesday evening. In the process, we rediscovered/refamiliarized ourselves with some offline games (mostly on my garage sale Mac, since the games were older) - it was cheesy fun to play Connections again. Gotta love James Burke. :)
2. Supposed to be getting a call from the private school administrator this afternoon sometime about what the schedule might look like for this year (I'm returning to teach a couple of classes). See here to find out more about the type of school it is - a mix between private school and home school. Worked there for seven years previously, and I feel pretty good about going back in.
3. Also doing a class at a co-op. Registration is Thursday. We'll see how many I get to sign up.
4. Patrick is excited about the beginning of August, b/c he knows that means school starts back up. He's looking forward to it!
5. Kiddos spent much of Thursday evening and Friday morning swimming at the in-laws' house. I need to buy more sunblock for them - we're about out of what I bought at the beginning of the summer. They've been over there swimming a lot. In previous years, we always had some left over, but this year? Already out.
6. The kiddos give me a great excuse to enjoy winter-y and Christmas-y shows in the summer. Hey, if they ask to watch "Thomas Christmas" (the Christmas themed DVD that we have of Thomas the Tank Engine episodes), well, I'm not going to tell them they have to wait until at least November to watch it. I'll gleefully turn it on (and listen in myself). ;)
7. We spent a few days without the internet this week - came back from a weekend trip (Fri. and Sat., actually) Saturday night to find our phone and internet out. Turned out to be a blown fuse type of thinger in the outside box. We thought our modem was dead too, but on a whim, the hubby tried a spare power cord that we happened to have, and presto - it worked. So, with all of that done, we were back up and running Wednesday evening. In the process, we rediscovered/refamiliarized ourselves with some offline games (mostly on my garage sale Mac, since the games were older) - it was cheesy fun to play Connections again. Gotta love James Burke. :)
Saturday, July 17, 2010
Wow, I didn't realize it had been that long.
So even though it's Saturday, and thus not the official "7 quick takes" day, I'm gonna do 7 little things anyhow. Unless I can't come up with 7, heh.
1. Monday - gonna be chatting with the new principal at the school I used to work at - looking at potentially picking up two classes there.
2. Tuesday - Patrick has a birthday party to attend - his best buddy from pre-K, Ahmad. I need to get out and get something for him this weekend. Or perhaps Monday.
3. So I need to find someone to watch Calla on Tuesday - since I really don't want to haul her with me to the party (It's at a bounce house type of place, and I know those have limits on attendees - had I thought to ask way back in June whether or not Calla would be able to attend, I would have, but it didn't even cross my mind, so I'm not going to ask with just a few days left. (Yes, I need someone to watch the kiddos on Monday as well, but that's already covered.)
4. If the classes at the school (physics 2 and chemistry) AND the co-op class (physics) make, then that will actually put me teaching M-F, heh. But it would be two classes on M/W/F and one on T/Th. Potential childcare is lined up except for Tues and Wed.
5. It is adorable to listen to the kiddos playing school. Patrick is always the teacher, going through the calendar and weather with Calla and/or a circle of toy animals.
6. Patrick says he wants to be a teacher. Of course, on any given day, he might respond fireman or something else as well, but it always seems to come back to teacher. I think it's pretty obvious that he REALLY liked pre-K.
7. And we think he's reading. Well, I take that back - he IS reading. He recognizes words and tries sounding out ones he doesn't recognize. It's just that his pool of recognized words is still limited (though growing!). The hubs noticed Patrick sounding out words while he was reading on the potty, LOL.
1. Monday - gonna be chatting with the new principal at the school I used to work at - looking at potentially picking up two classes there.
2. Tuesday - Patrick has a birthday party to attend - his best buddy from pre-K, Ahmad. I need to get out and get something for him this weekend. Or perhaps Monday.
3. So I need to find someone to watch Calla on Tuesday - since I really don't want to haul her with me to the party (It's at a bounce house type of place, and I know those have limits on attendees - had I thought to ask way back in June whether or not Calla would be able to attend, I would have, but it didn't even cross my mind, so I'm not going to ask with just a few days left. (Yes, I need someone to watch the kiddos on Monday as well, but that's already covered.)
4. If the classes at the school (physics 2 and chemistry) AND the co-op class (physics) make, then that will actually put me teaching M-F, heh. But it would be two classes on M/W/F and one on T/Th. Potential childcare is lined up except for Tues and Wed.
5. It is adorable to listen to the kiddos playing school. Patrick is always the teacher, going through the calendar and weather with Calla and/or a circle of toy animals.
6. Patrick says he wants to be a teacher. Of course, on any given day, he might respond fireman or something else as well, but it always seems to come back to teacher. I think it's pretty obvious that he REALLY liked pre-K.
7. And we think he's reading. Well, I take that back - he IS reading. He recognizes words and tries sounding out ones he doesn't recognize. It's just that his pool of recognized words is still limited (though growing!). The hubs noticed Patrick sounding out words while he was reading on the potty, LOL.
Tuesday, June 8, 2010
Friday, June 4, 2010
7 Quick Takes Friday - The Thirteenth! (hee!)

1. Mispronunciations:
Patrick is pronouncing volcano as "vol-CANE-hoe". I guess at least it isn't "Vulcan-hoe", which would be something else entirely, eh?
Calla has erplane (airplane), wanana (banana), and gircle (circle) on her list.
2. End of the school year! Patrick is off for a few days until he starts a summer session on Wednesday.
3. Speaking of the end of the school year, an observation on the difference between early elementary and secondary teachers:
Me, at the end of a school year - go out to the car and blast the Hallelujah Chorus from Handel's Messiah on the car stereo (sadly, the cassette player isn't working any more, so I'll need to find some other way to do this in the future).
Patrick's teacher, today on the last day - was fighting tears.
(But that was really sweet to see. She was so good with the kiddos - fantastic catch for the school district, I think.)
4. Drove straight from Patrick's class's end-of-year award ceremony to where my in-laws were having lunch on a car tour, to drop Patrick off with them. He'll have a great time on the tour (as always!). Meanwhile, Calla was off with the babysitter at a local homeschool co-op's day out. She apparently had a great time with them. I really didn't want to haul Calla with us, for her to find out Patrick was staying and she wasn't, as my MIL can't keep a good eye on both of them right now. In another year or two, they'll be more of an age where they can both go without a problem.
5. I'm wondering how Patrick will take to his teacher next year (who will be the one at the summer session as well). The summer session will give him the chance to get acquainted, to practice classroom-type skills a bit more, etc., and I'm hoping it'll be easier to transition in August, since we'll be able to tell him he'll have that same teacher - rather than his being done right now, and perhaps thinking he'll be having his teacher from this year when he goes back.
6. I really need to order the book I'm going to be using for the co-op that I'll be teaching at next year. I've seen it before - heck, I've taught from it for a few years out at the private school I worked at - but I don't have my own copy, and I'll need it for this. I should probably get it sooner rather than later so I'll have more opportunity to get some better planning done.
7. The hubby has been watching recorded episodes of Star Trek: The Next Generation on his comp. They recently finished the series, and so are back to the beginning. He's watching "Code of Honor" right now. When I saw it come on, I said "Oh no, THAT episode" and he remarked that you could say that about all (or nearly all) of the first season episodes, and some of the second. Heh. He did say that, in returning to the beginning, he noticed that some of what they do in the episodes - such as the dramatic music before commercial breaks, etc. - is a lot like what they did in the original series - that it's much more obvious to him, after just having watched episodes of the final season (as well as the first season of DS9 on DVD from Netflix), what had changed over the years as they adapted.
Other than just that the episodes got a bit better. :D
Tuesday, June 1, 2010
Something that is possibly irksome.
I saw this on LFMF:
Now, he didn't say what the "extreme humiliation" was. It may just have been whatever tests they ran before finding out that it was just from food coloring (probably the slushie), because I can't imagine that the tests that would have been done for suspected bleeding from that area would be all that dignified.
And I hope that's really all he means by that. It probably is.
But if he did overhear any of the staff chuckling/laughing, well...it isn't necessarily something that would encourage him to come back if, next time, he suspected a heart attack (but wrote it off to heartburn). If you really do want folks to get to the ER *pronto* if they have symptoms that may indicate something serious (but may also be something fairly harmless), then folks MUST feel that they can make a mistake without ridicule, and should be reassured that their mistake was understandable (even if from a medical POV it may not be all that normal a mistake to make), and given better information if necessary on how to tell if they are experiencing the suspected issue.
Again, not saying the medical staff in this situation were overheard having a laugh at his mistake. He may well have felt humiliated simply by having tests done only to find out it was from his food.
From Learn From My Fail:
Whenever you have a red substance in your stool, remember that you had four helpings of spaghetti and a cherry slush drink for dinner last night before you rush to the ER with "internal bleeding". It will save you from the extreme humiliation you will receive. #LFMF
Now, he didn't say what the "extreme humiliation" was. It may just have been whatever tests they ran before finding out that it was just from food coloring (probably the slushie), because I can't imagine that the tests that would have been done for suspected bleeding from that area would be all that dignified.
And I hope that's really all he means by that. It probably is.
But if he did overhear any of the staff chuckling/laughing, well...it isn't necessarily something that would encourage him to come back if, next time, he suspected a heart attack (but wrote it off to heartburn). If you really do want folks to get to the ER *pronto* if they have symptoms that may indicate something serious (but may also be something fairly harmless), then folks MUST feel that they can make a mistake without ridicule, and should be reassured that their mistake was understandable (even if from a medical POV it may not be all that normal a mistake to make), and given better information if necessary on how to tell if they are experiencing the suspected issue.
Again, not saying the medical staff in this situation were overheard having a laugh at his mistake. He may well have felt humiliated simply by having tests done only to find out it was from his food.
Saturday, May 29, 2010
Friday, May 28, 2010
7 Quick Takes Friday - XII

1. I have been informed that my little 5-year-old boy is very popular with the 4th grade girls. They apparently think he's a sweet little boy (which I think he is as well, but then, I'm a bit biased). Dunno when they're around him to form this opinion - recess, I suppose. But it was cute to hear.
2. Garage sale scores - a $30 Madeline doll for $1 (tag still on it), and a book entitled "Ninja Secrets of Invisibility". Hey, it was 50 cents, I HAD to. A cursory flip through the book reveals that it is about stealth. It'll be a nifty read. :D There was more that I bought, but those were the two most interesting, to my mind, at least.
3. Finally got a replacement wheel for our lawnmower. The hubby had NO luck trying to get one last fall, and barely managed the final mow of the season with an epoxied-and-taped wheel, which held together juuuuust long enough. When he tried finding a replacement, the dealer finder on the Toro website was NOT working, thus a bunch of fruitless trips. Yes, I suppose he could have ordered one, but he had been hoping to find one in stock to finish that last mow done with an intact wheel. I decided I would try to track one down yesterday, and behold, the dealer finder WORKS now - so it took us less than 5 minutes to get the location of a nearby dealer, another few minutes for me to call and find out they had a wheel in stock, and that afternoon, I picked it up. Much easier, LOL.
4. While doing that, I passed by a few places in the nearby city that I typically don't drive by often - one was Arby's, which is where I grabbed lunch (I probably have Arby's about once a year - not b/c I don't like it, but b/c I'm just never going that way, so it has to come to mind and/or I need to specifically want *that*). The other was a Mexican grocery store, which I had been meaning to stop in and check out, but hadn't really had the opportunity yet. So I did - and I WILL be going back.
Meat prices were fantastic, they had some different produce at decent prices, and a whole lot of Mexican-bottled Sprite! WOOHOO! If you have never tried it, DO. It has real sugar (as does Mexican bottled Coke, etc.), and it has more lime to the flavor than the US bottled/canned Sprite does. The local grocery store does have a spot for it, but never has it in stock. Now I know where to get it. :) The hubby is pleased.
At any rate, I did pick up some Sprite, bananas and some cookies - wafer cookies, like the vanilla/strawberry/chocolate ones - but unlike those, the ones we've tried so far (dulce de leche) didn't leave that kind of filmy feeling after. And of course, no HFCS - sugar sugar sugar. Now, I'm not one to call cookies health food, heh. I know they aren't. :D But no filmy aftertexture (well, it isn't really an aftertaste, is it?) and real sugar? And REALLY good? Nifty. And a fair number of different flavors available (as well as the standard vanilla/strawberry/chocolate), such as mango and guava.
5. One oddity spotted at the above grocery store, and I imagine it's just b/c someone was pulling up whatever on the meat pricing label just to get the packages marked - one pound packages of crawfish were labeled as "imitation crab meat". Not crawfish meat, either. The whooooole crawfish.
6. Also, I had noticed before that one of the play grocery store items that Calla has, which is supposed to be a 2 liter bottled drink, has a label declaring the flavor to be "aloe". I figured this had to be some kind of mistake - well, kind of, anyhow - that they used that recognizable 2 liter bottle as the representative container for any non-canned liquid, and that it was meant to be hand soap or lotion or something. But now that I've seen the soda choices at the store, I see that her toy label was NOT a mistake. There is indeed aloe-flavored soda available there. I don't think I'm quite up for trying it, though I imagine it probably wouldn't taste much different than a carbonated herbal tea or something.
7. Passed by a coin-op laundromat on the way home from there - the name? "The Lost Sock". So either they're promising you will find all those lost socks you've been missing, or they're advertising the inevitable result of laundry. Either way, it is memorable, so I suppose it does work for that. :D
So the big lesson learned this week - if you have an ethnic grocer near you, GO. You never know what you may find.
Friday, April 23, 2010
7 Quick Takes Friday - XI

1. Been a while since one of these! Anyhow, the boy is off to school. Didn't know if he'd be going today, since he was up a lot last night coughing, but he was up and asking about school this morning, soo...we'll give it a go. Resumed breathing treatments as well, so hopefully that will help. Allergies are awful right now.
2. Calla likes trains. Not so much playing with toy trains (though she will), but making trains from lines of chairs or other furnishings...
The view from my seat. Skeleton bear (thus named b/c of his skeleton costume - he doesn't have his hood up, but Calla prefers it down. He's her favorite stuffed animal by FAR.) is in front of me, in the dining car. ;) There's an ottoman in front of the table, but you can't really see it from this angle.
And the view behind me, where her favorite doll is riding. Sometime after this, she also added a little toy-sized Cozy Coupe as a passenger as well.
3. We're going to be getting Patrick a new car seat this weekend. I had been forewarned on one of the message boards I frequent that the one he has now, which can be used with a harness or as a booster, is not a good booster b/c of the way it positions the seat belt on the child's body (lap belt too high). I tried it to see how it fit him, and yep - it did NOT fit him well at ALL. It's almost like it held the seat belt out in front of him for him to crash into, rather than position it to lay across him correctly. He's hit the weight limit on the harness of the seat, so we'll be getting a new carseat for him this weekend (probably a booster only, but I'm open to a higher weight limit harness & booster combo, if we can afford it). We'll probably move Calla into Patrick's current seat with the harness, because it is SO much easier to get a good snug fit on the harness in his than in her current seat.
4. Purged some toys from the kiddos' room yesterday and boxed 'em up - they could probably stand to have another box out as well, but I only had one box. I was going to rearrange their room to see if I could get them more floor space with the beds against the wall, but it didn't work well that way. Oh well - at least I got a box of toys out.
5. I took Calla to a baby-to-preschooler age mom-and-kid type music class thinger on Monday - the instructor's son had been in speech therapy with Calla. I had been meaning to take her for months now, but with the bronchitis and such, it's only now that I finally got around to it. She didn't quite follow what was going on, but that's pretty typical of the first couple of sessions. I'll probably go ahead and take her through the rest of this year (only a couple more sessions until summer break), since it's only $1 per session, and then we'll see how she handles it when it starts back up this fall. I'd like to get her acquainted with a structured activity of some sort, just to see how she does.
6. Assuming that enough students sign up, I'll be doing a physics class for a local homeschool co-op this coming school year. It's two hours a week (the co-op is actually one day a week, but they have classrooms secured for a second day for high-school level classes and such that really do need more tutor-led instructional time per week), and the child care during class times is a whopping $5 (though I'll need to check - I dunno if that's available during that additional day or not. If it isn't, I imagine I should be able to line someone up for that one day per week, since it's such a short time). The following year, though, I will probably be trying to get into the local school district. Glad we'll have been able to swing my staying home with the kiddos as much as I have until school age, but it's been tight, and being able to get some savings built up will be a good thing.
7. Fingers crossed, I think Calla very nearly has this whole potty thing down. She's very inconsistent with poo, but otherwise seems to have it. Hopefully that'll come too pretty soon. C'mon, Calla!!
Saturday, March 27, 2010
Dinner last night
Lo, the discovery that snow crab is actually affordable at the grocery store meant that we indulged last night. :D
It was also very nice to discover just how freaking easy it was to prepare. Not gonna cook like this every week, but I'll definitely be doing it more often.
Sorry it's not more attractively arranged, though, LOL! And it was rather amusing that the only thing I could find for the melted butter were old baby food jars - hee! They worked well, though!
(And we did have veggies, but they didn't fit well on the plate, so we had them afterward. Lemme tell ya, it definitely pointed out just how big restaurant plates are - probably more like the size of the chargers.)
It was also very nice to discover just how freaking easy it was to prepare. Not gonna cook like this every week, but I'll definitely be doing it more often.
Sorry it's not more attractively arranged, though, LOL! And it was rather amusing that the only thing I could find for the melted butter were old baby food jars - hee! They worked well, though!
(And we did have veggies, but they didn't fit well on the plate, so we had them afterward. Lemme tell ya, it definitely pointed out just how big restaurant plates are - probably more like the size of the chargers.)
Thursday, March 25, 2010
In disagreement about home buying and features...
An article I read recently on How Stuff Works listed ten things first-time homebuyers want, but don't need. They advise going over your wish-list of home features with your agent to make sure it makes sense for the money spent and for practicality.
And while what they listed weren't bad considerations, I found myself disagreeing with them in many cases - I think largely because of what must have been their mental image and mine of the same features. It's one thing to get a reality check if you think that, say, putting money into homes with pools is going to pay off down the road, given cost of maintenance and insurance/liability issues, but it's quite another to decide that you need to give up what you want just because it won't yield big bucks. Even the most average house with no perks suffered in the housing crash - whatever you spend on a house, you risk not recouping. So giving up everything for a bland home you won't truly enjoy simply for resale is just as big a mistake, in my opinion.
With that, their list:
A Big Yard
The argument against that they give is maintenance, with an eye toward the highly-maintained green carpet-like lawns and extravagant landscape. Both of which, they say, are not kid friendly. Okay, I'd agree with that. But it's a huge jump to go "magazine-manicured-and-landscaped-lawns-are-not-kid-friendly" to "don't get a big yard". Postage-stamp yards aren't all that kid friendly either. Just be realistic about what you'll be able to do with the yard. Just because you won't have an authentic English garden doesn't mean you can't have a flower bed with perennial bulbs and a mowed lawn. A tip you'll see over and over in gardening magazines - know what works in your area, and work with that - that'll give the most bang for the buck AND for the time. But that said, if you love it, why the heck not?? As long as you are doing it because you love it, and not because you think you'll get $$$$ out of it for resale.
A Home Theater
The big argument here is against the cost of putting one in, and the likelihood of having buyers later who will shell out the $$ to recoup. And as above, what they seem to be picturing is the big built-in with the specialized seating and projection system, etc. But a homeowner could get something close with darkening curtains (maybe even staying pulled back behind lighter ones during the day) and a surround sound system, with whatever TV you can afford. And? You get to take the TV and surround sound system WITH YOU, and when you're not watching a movie, the room is in use as your family room.
IF you go for a dedicated home theater with the dedicated stuffs, the article STILL assumes that you're doing it all-out with a huge room that will never be usable for anything else ever again. A nearly-normal-sized room can, when it comes time to sell, be fitted with a couple of chairs or daybed, or an inexpensive desk, and be marketed as a guest room or home office. Heck, if it's your basement - easy room to keep dark - then strip the stuff out. A finished basement with potential is not a bad thing.
As above, again, just don't expect to put one in and have it as a big draw for buyers later. Do it because you yourself love it.
A Fireplace
Arguments against here are the maintenance, dead space during the summer, and the fact that a traditional fireplace won't really warm a room much (since much of the heat goes out the chimney). Bah. As long as you are willing to have it cleaned, then go for it. Newer options, especially, DO actually allow for heating - granted, these are typically gas fireplaces, but they retain much of the appeal of a traditional one. Ditto a modern wood-burning stove.
(and seriously, arguing about the dead space inside a fireplace? Get a freaking screen. Or candles. Etc.)
Walk-In Humidor (or wine cellar, or...)
Because, you know, those are common on the first-time homebuyer's list. SERIOUSLY?
Stainless Steel Appliances
Okay, sorry. We're not talking avocado green or harvest gold here. And I do agree with them in their comment about wood-paneled appliances (the type that match/blend in with your cabinets), in that if your choice of cabinetry goes out of style, it will stick out more - but aren't most of those removable? If not, at any rate, I still stand by my comments about knowing what you're spending and not expecting it to necessarily get you money in the end. But I guess I see stainless steel as neutral enough that it's not going to stand out in the same way as a trendy color. And I see a difference between a kitchen with the standard appliances in stainless and a kitchen with the big hoods and an extra convection oven and other specialty appliances that add to the amount of stainless in the kitchen (the picture they chose for the article, of course, had one of those big oven hoods in stainless...). Most first-time-home kitchens are not going to SCREAM appliance color in that way.
Outdoor Kitchen
This one, they admit, can work if you keep it modest AND you're in a climate that allows for use most of the year. Otherwise, I'd imagine you could just as easily do with a nicer-model outdoor grill, patio or deck, and deck furnishings (vs. a built-in fireplace and such outside), which will be less costly and which you'll be able to take with you.
Formal Dining Room
They argue against, with money goiong toward other areas of the home, such as larger closets, etc., since most folks won't use it often. I'd just say to really know whether or not you'll use it. REALLY think about it. In our home, we have a separate dining room - but it's an older home, and we don't have another informal dining area attached to the kitchen, so the dining room is IT. So look at what the home offers, be realistic about whether or not you'll use it, and if you still really love it, go for it.
A Library or Sunroom
They argue that these have limited appeal. I disagree, depending on how they're set up. I think their vision of a library is wall-to-wall-to-wall built in bookcases, and their vision of a sunroom, something closer to what I'd call a conservatory - nearly an indoor greenhouse. I guess I don't see either of those rooms in that way. A library can easily become a home office or a kids' room - if the built-ins are not on every wall and are deep enough to handle some storage baskets or bins. A sunroom, if it isn't something more akin to a greenhouse, can do that outdoor-feeling-inside, especially with french doors or the like to be able to open into the yard or onto a deck or patio.
(So in this case, I think their vision of what a library or sunroom must be and mine must be rather different.)
Have to agree with them on one thing. They don't like those bump-out-greenhouse-windows either. :D Hee!
A Shed
Their argument against is that they can be an eyesore (depends on the shed, in my opinion), can be moldy/mildewy inside (again, depends on the shed), and it can advertise a lack of storage space inside. But really, if we're talking storing lawn/garden equipment, a maintained decent-looking shed can be perfect (I think, given their comment about sheds taking up lawn space, we're also thinking of different-sized yards - but then, they argued against the large yard, too. A small yard isn't going to need a hefty lawnmower, you know? And a larger yard isn't going to be overpowered by a shed).
Pools, Ponds, water features
Their arguments here are the amount of time and money that go into maintenance, as well as the insurance/liability issues from the possibility of drowning (since children can drown even in a small, shallow pond). I would simply say to know what you're getting into with the maintenance, have a talk with an insurance agent about insurability, and consider your own family makeup and your likely guests. Water features are not something to do as investment, I agree.
In all of these cases, their arguments have to do with a first time home and resale. My argument is this: Know your budget, know what you will REALLY use and not use, and then act accordingly. Again, we've seen how the market can bottom out and make even the most wisely-designed-for-resale home unsellable - so as long as you're not depending on getting all of that money back out of the home soon, then get what you will use and love. Better to be stuck in something you LIKE than in a home in which you gave up everything you wanted for some future resale date.
And while what they listed weren't bad considerations, I found myself disagreeing with them in many cases - I think largely because of what must have been their mental image and mine of the same features. It's one thing to get a reality check if you think that, say, putting money into homes with pools is going to pay off down the road, given cost of maintenance and insurance/liability issues, but it's quite another to decide that you need to give up what you want just because it won't yield big bucks. Even the most average house with no perks suffered in the housing crash - whatever you spend on a house, you risk not recouping. So giving up everything for a bland home you won't truly enjoy simply for resale is just as big a mistake, in my opinion.
With that, their list:
A Big Yard
The argument against that they give is maintenance, with an eye toward the highly-maintained green carpet-like lawns and extravagant landscape. Both of which, they say, are not kid friendly. Okay, I'd agree with that. But it's a huge jump to go "magazine-manicured-and-landscaped-lawns-are-not-kid-friendly" to "don't get a big yard". Postage-stamp yards aren't all that kid friendly either. Just be realistic about what you'll be able to do with the yard. Just because you won't have an authentic English garden doesn't mean you can't have a flower bed with perennial bulbs and a mowed lawn. A tip you'll see over and over in gardening magazines - know what works in your area, and work with that - that'll give the most bang for the buck AND for the time. But that said, if you love it, why the heck not?? As long as you are doing it because you love it, and not because you think you'll get $$$$ out of it for resale.
A Home Theater
The big argument here is against the cost of putting one in, and the likelihood of having buyers later who will shell out the $$ to recoup. And as above, what they seem to be picturing is the big built-in with the specialized seating and projection system, etc. But a homeowner could get something close with darkening curtains (maybe even staying pulled back behind lighter ones during the day) and a surround sound system, with whatever TV you can afford. And? You get to take the TV and surround sound system WITH YOU, and when you're not watching a movie, the room is in use as your family room.
IF you go for a dedicated home theater with the dedicated stuffs, the article STILL assumes that you're doing it all-out with a huge room that will never be usable for anything else ever again. A nearly-normal-sized room can, when it comes time to sell, be fitted with a couple of chairs or daybed, or an inexpensive desk, and be marketed as a guest room or home office. Heck, if it's your basement - easy room to keep dark - then strip the stuff out. A finished basement with potential is not a bad thing.
As above, again, just don't expect to put one in and have it as a big draw for buyers later. Do it because you yourself love it.
A Fireplace
Arguments against here are the maintenance, dead space during the summer, and the fact that a traditional fireplace won't really warm a room much (since much of the heat goes out the chimney). Bah. As long as you are willing to have it cleaned, then go for it. Newer options, especially, DO actually allow for heating - granted, these are typically gas fireplaces, but they retain much of the appeal of a traditional one. Ditto a modern wood-burning stove.
(and seriously, arguing about the dead space inside a fireplace? Get a freaking screen. Or candles. Etc.)
Walk-In Humidor (or wine cellar, or...)
Because, you know, those are common on the first-time homebuyer's list. SERIOUSLY?
Stainless Steel Appliances
Okay, sorry. We're not talking avocado green or harvest gold here. And I do agree with them in their comment about wood-paneled appliances (the type that match/blend in with your cabinets), in that if your choice of cabinetry goes out of style, it will stick out more - but aren't most of those removable? If not, at any rate, I still stand by my comments about knowing what you're spending and not expecting it to necessarily get you money in the end. But I guess I see stainless steel as neutral enough that it's not going to stand out in the same way as a trendy color. And I see a difference between a kitchen with the standard appliances in stainless and a kitchen with the big hoods and an extra convection oven and other specialty appliances that add to the amount of stainless in the kitchen (the picture they chose for the article, of course, had one of those big oven hoods in stainless...). Most first-time-home kitchens are not going to SCREAM appliance color in that way.
Outdoor Kitchen
This one, they admit, can work if you keep it modest AND you're in a climate that allows for use most of the year. Otherwise, I'd imagine you could just as easily do with a nicer-model outdoor grill, patio or deck, and deck furnishings (vs. a built-in fireplace and such outside), which will be less costly and which you'll be able to take with you.
Formal Dining Room
They argue against, with money goiong toward other areas of the home, such as larger closets, etc., since most folks won't use it often. I'd just say to really know whether or not you'll use it. REALLY think about it. In our home, we have a separate dining room - but it's an older home, and we don't have another informal dining area attached to the kitchen, so the dining room is IT. So look at what the home offers, be realistic about whether or not you'll use it, and if you still really love it, go for it.
A Library or Sunroom
They argue that these have limited appeal. I disagree, depending on how they're set up. I think their vision of a library is wall-to-wall-to-wall built in bookcases, and their vision of a sunroom, something closer to what I'd call a conservatory - nearly an indoor greenhouse. I guess I don't see either of those rooms in that way. A library can easily become a home office or a kids' room - if the built-ins are not on every wall and are deep enough to handle some storage baskets or bins. A sunroom, if it isn't something more akin to a greenhouse, can do that outdoor-feeling-inside, especially with french doors or the like to be able to open into the yard or onto a deck or patio.
(So in this case, I think their vision of what a library or sunroom must be and mine must be rather different.)
Have to agree with them on one thing. They don't like those bump-out-greenhouse-windows either. :D Hee!
A Shed
Their argument against is that they can be an eyesore (depends on the shed, in my opinion), can be moldy/mildewy inside (again, depends on the shed), and it can advertise a lack of storage space inside. But really, if we're talking storing lawn/garden equipment, a maintained decent-looking shed can be perfect (I think, given their comment about sheds taking up lawn space, we're also thinking of different-sized yards - but then, they argued against the large yard, too. A small yard isn't going to need a hefty lawnmower, you know? And a larger yard isn't going to be overpowered by a shed).
Pools, Ponds, water features
Their arguments here are the amount of time and money that go into maintenance, as well as the insurance/liability issues from the possibility of drowning (since children can drown even in a small, shallow pond). I would simply say to know what you're getting into with the maintenance, have a talk with an insurance agent about insurability, and consider your own family makeup and your likely guests. Water features are not something to do as investment, I agree.
In all of these cases, their arguments have to do with a first time home and resale. My argument is this: Know your budget, know what you will REALLY use and not use, and then act accordingly. Again, we've seen how the market can bottom out and make even the most wisely-designed-for-resale home unsellable - so as long as you're not depending on getting all of that money back out of the home soon, then get what you will use and love. Better to be stuck in something you LIKE than in a home in which you gave up everything you wanted for some future resale date.
Tuesday, March 9, 2010
Saturday, March 6, 2010
Discoveries
My folks spent the past week here. Much of The Barricade was thanks to the acquisition of a new chainsaw, which was desperately needed in order to cut branches that the Big Snow had broken. Many many branches were cut, ten windows in the house have been replaced (yay for getting rid of drafty single-pane windows!) leaving only the eight in our room undone, and the leak in the roof has been, I think, fixed. The hubby will be checking it again today with the garden hose to make sure before he begins work repairing the ceiling of my bathroom.
I'll be very happy to have my bathroom back. And my laundry room - there are tools on the floor that, although mostly out of the way, don't really allow me to get to the dryer as easily.
The funniest part of their visit, though, had to be when I asked my mom where she got the mug she was using for her coffee. They were at our house, but I didn't remember having that kind of mug. She pointed to my cabinets. Would you believe, there was a cabinet that I just had.not.used. in at LEAST a year, probably more like two or three? I don't know why - i just never did. Sure enough, there were some mugs on one shelf, a pie plate on another, and a couple of travel mugs/drink bottles and an ice cream sundae dish on the third. I've now rearranged some of the things from other cabinets to make better use of the space from the Undiscovered Cabinet.
I knew it wasn't just a false front/decorative cabinet. Why the heck wasn't I using it?
I'll be very happy to have my bathroom back. And my laundry room - there are tools on the floor that, although mostly out of the way, don't really allow me to get to the dryer as easily.
The funniest part of their visit, though, had to be when I asked my mom where she got the mug she was using for her coffee. They were at our house, but I didn't remember having that kind of mug. She pointed to my cabinets. Would you believe, there was a cabinet that I just had.not.used. in at LEAST a year, probably more like two or three? I don't know why - i just never did. Sure enough, there were some mugs on one shelf, a pie plate on another, and a couple of travel mugs/drink bottles and an ice cream sundae dish on the third. I've now rearranged some of the things from other cabinets to make better use of the space from the Undiscovered Cabinet.
I knew it wasn't just a false front/decorative cabinet. Why the heck wasn't I using it?
Sunday, February 28, 2010
Here upon these stones we will build our barricade...
Okay, so we have done a little tree trimming in the past day or two...
(Need to find out how the city is handling pickup of this stuff - there are a LOT of folks with brush piles from branches downed in that heavy snow a couple of weeks ago.)
Thursday, February 11, 2010
SNOW!!! And still coming down!
Wow! I really didn't expect an accumulation - and it's still coming down - good packing snow, too! Calla is thrilled - and I assume I'll probably hear from Patrick after school that they got to go outside in it at some point. Heck, it'll still be here when we get back from picking him up - I figure he'll probably go straight from the car-to-play, do not pass go, do not collect $200.
It's NOTHING like the snow they've been having in the northeast, mind you - that's some crazy stuff, with nearly a foot in one night (a few days ago) and stuff STILL coming. But this is, proportionately, big for us. Potentially 4-6 inches?!? **WOW**.
Friday, January 29, 2010
7 Quick Takes Friday - X

1. Finally getting through the bronchitis. Well, mostly. Meds are done, but I think I'm still going to be using Robitussin for a little while to finish clearing what's left. And I have yet to sleep for more than a four hour stretch.
2. Applied at a homeschool co-op - now we see if the class will be desired AND needed. They way they explained it was this: they may well have enough students who would want to take the class, but if, due to space and schedule limitations, the options for what they would offer would be between physics and, say, biology, biology would win, because it is a requirement for graduation - it would be a *needed* class. Now, I have no idea what classes are competing (for lack of a better term) when it comes down to the last few spaces, but I do understand if it turns out that, although I checked out okay and there were students wanting the class, they can't offer it because of other needs. IF that happens, I think I'm ready to try stepping back into public schools - our local district, specifically. We'll see what happens!
3. Need to get out to Target sometime today. Dunno if I'll do that before or after getting Patrick - he'd probably like going. Besides, it's chilly and raining, so I'm not sure if I really want to make a separate trip out. It's one of those "grab some cocoa and stay in bed" type of days. Nevermind that "grab some cocoa and stay in bed" sounds good *anyhow* (see number 1 up there).
4. Supposed to be a women's night out tonight. I would *like* to go, but if I am still feeling drained, I should probably stay home and try to get some rest. I'm ready to feel back to normal, seriously, but with my sleep still being messed up, it's taking a while to get there.
5. Also hoping to get out to eat for my birthday this weekend. A little late, but I feel a lot more up to it now than I did last week, heh. Thoughts are going between seafood (crab legs!) and steak. Yes, I could go somewhere that would offer both, LOL, and believe me, that thought has crossed my mind too. Decisions, decisions...
6. Calla is being officially released from speech therapy. Little stinker probably didn't really need it to begin with, but they had problems trying to evaluate her initially, because she hadn't had a chance to really warm up to them and therefore she wasn't very responsive. She's enjoyed it, though, and it certainly didn't cause any harm.
7. Hm. Temps are supposed to be falling here, so now I wonder if the weather will actually be a bit dicey to drive to the women's night thinger anyhow? Guess we'll see!
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
2 days, 2 confirmed cases of bronchitis...
Yesterday I went to the doc, and today, the boy did.
Two days, two $35 office visit copays, and $213 in prescriptions later, we're hopefully looking at getting over this thing. :/
Two days, two $35 office visit copays, and $213 in prescriptions later, we're hopefully looking at getting over this thing. :/
Friday, January 8, 2010
Ice sculptures
No, not here, though we certainly felt like walking icicles today (wind chill in single digits this morn). Ice and Snow Sculpture festival in China:
Harbin Ice and Snow Sculpture FestivalThursday, January 7, 2010
Pics!
Calla, examining a rose. This was around early December.
Patrick, looking ready to celebrate.
Kiddos - ready for 2010!
The kiddos, conversing about who knows what in their favorite little hideaway. Yes, underneath the communion table.
You know, Calla reminds me of someone there, but I cannot come up with the name. It's right on the tip of my tongue. Or fingers, I guess, since I'm typing. ;)
Scary Calla. This is her "scary monster" pose.
Patrick, photobombing.
Dunno if she was trying to dance or turn herself to look upside down. Either way, she's being silly, which she does exceptionally well.
As I said, silly.
Little cowgirl.
And fun with curvy "funhouse" style mirrors at the mall play area.
It's funny, from the above, you'd think Calla is our ham, and Patrick is reluctant to be photographed, but it's totally the opposite. Which is why, I think, when we DO get pics of Calla, we go crazy with them.
Patrick, looking ready to celebrate.
Kiddos - ready for 2010!
The kiddos, conversing about who knows what in their favorite little hideaway. Yes, underneath the communion table.
You know, Calla reminds me of someone there, but I cannot come up with the name. It's right on the tip of my tongue. Or fingers, I guess, since I'm typing. ;)
Scary Calla. This is her "scary monster" pose.
Patrick, photobombing.
Dunno if she was trying to dance or turn herself to look upside down. Either way, she's being silly, which she does exceptionally well.
As I said, silly.
Little cowgirl.
And fun with curvy "funhouse" style mirrors at the mall play area.
It's funny, from the above, you'd think Calla is our ham, and Patrick is reluctant to be photographed, but it's totally the opposite. Which is why, I think, when we DO get pics of Calla, we go crazy with them.
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